He married his cousin, Hannah Goodale, on May 21, 1666. Hannah was born on August 6, 1645 in Salem. Her parents were Robert Goodale and Catherine Kilham. Hannah's sister, Sarah Goodale married John Batcheller.
Robert [Goodale] seems to have devoted his life to the development of his large grant for the benefit of his sons and daughters to whom, as they married, he gave generous acreages as wedding gifts, thus creating a family settlement about his own homestead.
Hannah and Lot's children included:
Hannah Kilham who was born at Wenham on March 16, 1667 and
James Kilham who was born at Enfield in 1677.
He settled at Enfield, Connecticut. He died there in 1683.
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